BUMIL.

Bumil...

My new nickname...

Apa tue bumil? 

And who is it dare to call me that?

Bumil is a term to call "Ibu Hamil" and honestly it makes me so happy when friend of mine call me that.

Sukeee sangat. I feel like I am someone different now.

I'm evolving hehehe...

Been few days I didn't update this blog.

Not that I'm out of online world, is just that I'm off of writing first.

But I'm still replying your rmails, don't worry.

And still update on my Twitter account HERE.

Some problems occured:

- My laptop, charger rosak, can't charge can't use laptop.

- Morning sickness which extended to noon most of the time...

- Not enough good food (I don't feel like eating anything now) so no mood.

- Assignment calling, omg it's already deadline!

- Settling immigration documents are not easy. Feel sorry for Mr Red Ribbon to skip working few times (coz applying this and that need both of us to be there), so sorry that you have to face all this... Luv you, thanks for your sacrifice.

- No more late nite sleep, just want my baby to be healthy.

So yeah, less time to write...

And now I'm at Mr Red Ribbon's office library, doing assignment, feel so bored, waiting for lunch time and wondering what to eat. 

And later on continue with our journey to Immigration office at Shah Alam...

Have a great day everyone :)

PS: I was a bit insulted yesterday at the immigration office, honestly, when someone said "Oh, habis dah sudah jejaka Melayu - jejaka Melayu kahwin ngan orang Indon nie." and I told the person "Habis juga gadis2 Indonesia kahwin ngan lelaki2 Melayu..." to make it even. Just feel insulted coz the person said the thing like it is a TOTAL LOSS of Malaysia having it's jejaka marry Indonesian girls, which xsedap didengar. It is probably a loss for Indonesia too, but nobody complaining, it's just takdir dan jodoh... 

Whatever, I was just too sensitive, I guess...

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A day with friends and Rumah Kebaya Malaysia's owner :)

Orait, I know I know I know...

Basi cite nie...

Tapi xde la basi sangat since sekarang masih bulan Ramadhan lagi...

Hari tue 1-2 weeks ago, my friends datang ke KL.

1 hari je diorang ada masa jalan2, on 17th August, coz kat Indonesia kan cuti independence day, so diorang datang la ke KL, saje2 nak jalan...

Tengok2 kat Msia pon cuti Nuzulul Qur'an, alhamdulillah so hari tue Mr Red Ribbon pon bole ikut jalan2 gak hehehehe...

Kami sempat pergi Putrajaya, Batu Caves, KLCC, dalam satu hari tue...

Oh ya, lagi satu... Central Market atau Pasar Seni.

Memang pening nak bawa diorang gi mana, ingatkan nak gi Bukit Tinggi... 

Tapi kan... mana sempat satu hari je diorang jalan, the next day dah kne fly Jakarta balik subuh time, so diorang akan terus masuk ofis dari airport.

Tapi alhamdulillah, was fun. 

One of them is my best friend masa kat Bandung.

Kenal kat dia masa keje... 

Kenal kejap je, keje event for few days, but perkenalan sangat berkesan.

And she is a nice person, even she's not moslem, but she respect my religion sangat2.

She even sometimes ingatkan me untuk sembahyang masa dengar azan.

So in short, after our meeting, we become a very best friend :)

So yeah, kita berjalan2 satu hari tue.

Sampai tetibe, cik Sitti Nur, mesti B2B semua tahu kan, owner Rumah Kebaya Malaysia, ajak buka puasa sama2...

Lama dah plan nak meeting up ngan dia, tapi xjadi2.

I know him from my mom and brother, sebab satu kampung kat Tasik Malaya.

So kita berkenalan kat Facebook je, sembang2, reply2 status hehe...

Dan finally we met up for buka puasa, Tinur (this is what I called her) and her hubby Ahmad Fairus.

Kita sempat jalan gi Ikano (IPC) then beli maccaron, that was first time me cuba makanan nie.

Hmmm... xberapa suka. Just for trying, I dont think I will buy again.

Dah macam sepakat je hari tue me and her pakai baju cokelat, beli maccaron sama2 perisa mocca...

Heeemmm....

Haaa nie dua lelaki gagah pasangan kita... Mr Red Ribbon dan abang Fairus :)

Nampak macam Batman dan Robin x?

Mana Batman mana Robin? hehe

Shopping Vincci!!!

Wajib for Indonesian yang datang ke Kl untuk shopping kasut Vincci...

So kita temankan my friends untuk shopping Vincci sampai diorang closed.

Waaa hari tue memang packed gila.

Plan sebelumnye nak celebrate independence day kat Indonesian embassy kat KL

Tengok2 my friend tetibe datang, so last2 kita berjalan je satu hari.

Lupa dah hari tue hari merdeka wkwkwkwk :)

Okies kawan2, dah selamat smp kampung?
Alhamdulillah me dah smp Mersing
Yay! esok raya!!!

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My First Time Attending Blogger Gathering @ Jakarta :)

Bloggers,

Remember few days ago I wrote an entry and told you I was going to my first blogger gathering at Jakarta??? Yes, I went there with two of my friends, Tere & Wahyu...

Was so shy, but eventually, I know someone there so was trying to blend around :)

Before I went to their picnic spot, I took a pic first with this Monumen Nasional as a background.

Honestly, been many years I didn't step my foot at this area.

Surely drove around this place most of the times coz it's right in the middle of Jakarta city, but never stop by since ... 10 years ago, perhaps???

I have no pic with Monas in the back, so this one quite historical hehehe:

Then we reached the place...

Waaa those bloggers were so kind welcoming us...

We were like strangers there at the first place, so scared no one will say "Hi", but everybody's waving and say "Hi, welcoommeee..."

It was a very simple event, with the most important thing for me is meeting up my long lost friend, been more than 20 years I didn't meet him and he's one of my bestfriends when I was a little girl :)

His name is Dimas...

Kawan sekolah rendah dulu kat Pangkalan Brandan, Sumatera Utara.

Then he gave speech on his plan to shift to Thailand, he got new job there...

So probably next time will have to fly to Thailand to meet him :(

By the way, best gak coz we got sponsor for drinks and food from Pizza Hut Delivery (PHD) and Aqua (most famous brand for mineral water @Indonesia).

Kenyang tak??? KENYANG!

Selepas tue ada promotional item from AQUA which is gelang kulit bertuliskan "It's in Me".

It's actually current campaign from that mineral water company regarding mineral water as a healthy drink.

 

Everybody's wearing one...

I got mine too!!!

Finally, group pic of Dimas, me, Wahyu, and Tere...

If you interested to read Dimas' blog, click HERE.

Thanks for reading all...

Me n my bestiez...

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U Borrow I Susah... *sigh*

This was actually happened on 11th April 2011. 

I still remember the date as I'm holding my credit card bill here...

A friend of mine was going to make a trip to Serawak with his mom and family.

I was with him that time and saw him 'fighting' with his laptop trying to buy ticket online but always FAILED. He was using his Maybank Card.

He kept on calling his mom and so worried coz afraid won't be able to fly.

Til one time, I feel so pity about him.

So when he asked whether I have any card, then I said "I do".

I lend him my credit card, which sooooo stupid thing I did that time.

I had bad experience with a friend of mine before, she didn't pay me like a month after she use my credit card for buying a flight ticket. Until my mom so pissed off too and drove to the friend's house to collect the money.

Well, yes there is a connection with mom, as it is a subsidiary card which my family has promised that it is ONLY FOR URGENT THING.

Yes, I never use it. No no never.

Especially to buy Malaysia Airlines ticket, coz my family only use Air Asia/KLM.

So yeah, as a friend, I let him used the card.

I leave it on him on how much flight fare he bought.

He already mention he bought 3 tickets and DONE.

He said he'll pay ASAP.

I remember end of April I was at Jakarta and I finally received RM 1k from him.

He said there's more he'd want to give.

Ok, I thought he wanted to pay me MORE as an appreciation for the card I lend him.

I don't know how much he used, when he gave me RM 1k, I thought total spending was 1k.

But then when the bill arrived, early of May, there stated that:

He used the card for MAS flight tickets of RM2k!

And not only on that day, abut 2 days after that he purchased another one!

Without my permission...

Mom was a bit shocked that I didn't knew how much my friend's spent.

I was so careless, I know...

I trust the person too much.

What mom wanted was to get my friend pays me back ASAP coz the interest started to run.

UNTIL TODAY, 2 MONTHS LATER...

He hasn't paid the balance yet.

And I'm just too tired of asking.

MALU. Macam along jer minta2 duit.

Last night was my last day of me waiting patiently.

Asked for the money, coz today I'm flying back to Jakarta, supposedly bring the money with me.

But suddenly he went on missing...

I sent him sooo many SMSes. 

I mad. Yes I'm soooo mad.

How could he?

I was ikhlas helping him.

But what he did to me?

Malu, seriously malu.

Malu minta orang bayar hutang kita.

He supposed to be malu to not paying what he borrowed.

Tapi peliknye, me yang malu...

Coz been asking like so many times...

Knp kne tunggu me marah???

Why not you update me on how you going to pay?

I always ask you to pay half, or any amount you have now.

But you never ever listen.

WHY BUYING SO MUCH WHEN YOU THINK YOU CAN'T AFFORD IT?

And this morning he texted me he will try to get 50%

50%???

Only 50%???

Then who'll pay the interest????

Me?

Ok cun!

THIS IS GONNA BE MY LAST TIME LENDING MONEY TO SOMEONE.

NOT EVEN MY BEST FRIEND!

Moral of the story: don't trust anyone that much, especially bab bab duit cengginih...

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Last weekend at Melaka for my friends' wedding!

Salam, bloggers...

Memang these few days Ms Red Ribbon belum sempat nak update blog.

Sebab oh sebab... DIGI line kat umah sangat2 slow macam siput lately.

Dah la a bit busy pegi sana pegi sini cari rumah, sampai umah malam, penat sangat2 nak tunggu internet slow gile sempat nak buka Google sambil masak kot... Heh...

So, memang baru sekarang je bole nak luangkan masa untuk menulis lagi...

Last weekend (aka Sabtu subuh) me pegi Melaka, attend our friend's wedding...

Me ada cerita pasal their engagement HERE.

Sampai kat Melaka dalam pukul 8 pagi, terus pegi homestay tempat pihak lelaki nyer tempat tinggal, coz the guy is from Serawak so they all rented a homestay for few days there.

Then we all pegi konvoy la ke rumah pihak perempuan.

Jom we all layan the wedding :)

Alhamdulillah, sekarang my friends, Qiela & Hazrin dah rasmi jadi pasangan suami dan istri...

Eventhough the procession sangat mengharukan...

Dua2 pengantin nampak dup dap tue pastinyer hehe...

Tengok muka tegang the bride?

Tengok pulak 2 orang ladies kat belakang tue yang tersengeh2 tengok camera :)

Dan finally 2 ladies tue busy mencari2 tissue sebab menangis terharu hehe...

Heeeee Ms Red Ribbon yang nak juga amek gambar...

Suke la nie pakai baju kaler biru nie, sesuai ngan tema wedding.

Dah usha2 sebelum nie, "eh korang nyer tema wedding aper yer?"

Dah dapat jawapan BIRU je, terus cari baju biru...

Haaa dapat jugak baju mak kaler biru (nasib baik size badan sama)

Tapi nie bergambar time pengantin pakai baju akad nikah nie...

Cam biasa la kaler putih...

Xsempat pulak bergambar time diorang pakai baju biru :(

Andai la andai bole bergambar ngan diorang time pakai baju biru...

Tapi me and Mr Red Ribbon kne terus gerak pegi photoshoot prewedding tue kat bandar Melaka jugak la, was such a lovely photoshoot thanks to the photographer... A BLOGGER! Yes, will write about it very soon (tengah tunggu gambar2 dia hantar by pos, hari tue xbawa laptop, xbawa pendrive huhu....)

Nie me and Mr Red Ribbon ngan pengantin...

Congrats, once again, for Qiela & Hazrin...

Semoga berkekalan sampai akhir :)

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Baru jumpa semalam, pagi nie dah rindu balik :(

Selamat pagi, dunia...

Hari ini hari Isnin. Dah kne start keje lagi.

How was your long weekend?

Eventho my weekend sangat2 xspecial, but I'm glad I was surrounded by my family.

Even last nite tetiba my very best friend ajak tengok konsert, suke sgt2!

I met up with many media people, sangat rindu nak keje lagi kat event organizer, kat media...

Hufff.. I had talk with few people last nite and hope that conversation will goes to something, which of course ada berkenaan ngan pasal kerjaya.

But, yang penting gak... I met my best friend!

Love to see her... Always love everything about her...

Seems like she's the perfect partner for me.

So sad that I'm currently apart miles away from her :(

The pic above was few years back, selepas both of us celebrate her bday (surprise bday cake for her) kat Bukit Bintang... Love her so much like my own sister :)

Hufff entah bila bole jumpe dia lagi ye?

Now she's busy working...

Harap2 sebelum balik KL bole jumpe dia lagi satu kali...

Hufff....

Dah la bersedih2... Jom join contest terbaru dari Ms Red Ribbon jom!

Klik kat banner bawah nie yer :)

JOIN JANGAN TAK JOIN!

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Ms Red Ribbon tengah tengok McFly in Concert now!

 When you read this, I might be inside Indoor Tennis Stadium, Senayan Jakarta...
Watpe?Watching konsert McFly,Satu band dari UK yang me xkenal langsung tapi disebabkan my bestfriend bagi free ticket worth RM120 for festival, me terus said "OK!" hehe...
Nak browsing lagu2 dia tak sempat.But I'm sure kalau dah dengar lagu diorang mesti tahu la yang mana satu.Harap2 konsert malam ini best dan jangan hujan.
Satu hari dari pagi hujan jer...Taknak hujan nanti basah...
:)   

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Be Back Soon :)

Salam bloggers,

Dah malam2 camnie me baru nak update blog.

Lama dah xonline...

Lama dah xbuka blogger...

Busy ke?

Actually, me ada kat Bandung since 

Sampai Bandung malam, terus me lepak ngan kawan2...

Seronok lama tak jumpe...

Kita ada ber 8 orang malam tue, tapi xsume ada dalam gambar...

Ada kawan yang dah bertahun2 xjumpe... dah 6-7 tahun kalau xsilap...

Huaaa... lama kan? So sangat2 seronok bole jumpe diorang lagi :)

Pastue, busy ape lagi?

Me datang Bandung nie bukan sajer2 nak datang Bandung,

tapi as usual me ada tugas jadi tour guide... cewaaahhh... tour guide cantik keh keh...

Tengok la my schedule kat SINI.

Hari tue ada satu akak + abang tue cakap selalunyer tour guide pakcik2, selalunye lelaki la,

Jarang2 perempuan macam me neh...

Hehehe, why not? Xsalah pon, Kan? Kan?

So, these few days (from 14th - 21st Apr) me bawa tamu2 dari Malaysia jalan2 kat Bandung...

Waaa banyaknyer cite... Banyaknyer gambar2...

Tapi xsempat online...

And all this while pon banyak cite pasal my wedding preparation...

Macam banyak plak hutang berceita ngan bloggers...

Me pon sangat rindu korang...
Nak online lagi, tulis lagi, baca lagi...

I will be back soon... As soon as me balik Jakarta...

Kat Bandung nie bole online by HP jer, slow sikit :)

Take care all blogger friends out there...

Will be in touch with you soon :)

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One Night at UM Emergency Hall...

Been few days I didn't update my blog... So sorry...

Still remember Friday night when I was about to prepare my pre wedding photoshoot, a last minute moment to buy football socks, getting football shoes from my friend, etc, but I had to deal with a very urgent thing which I didn't expect before...

A nite that I had to see my friend commited suicide.

A friend that I love...

A good friend of mine that have shared joy, tears, or even quarrel with me...

A friend that has been act as my second family here in Malaysia...

I just couldn't imagine what will happened if me and other 3 friends arrived late on his apartment that night... I doun't want to imagine that for sure...

Then I spent my night at UM Hospital Emergency Hall.

Worried about him...

But anyway, we all learn a lesson...

People said TOO MUCH LOVE WILL KILL YOU.

But think of your future as a single person.

Whatever it is happen on your marriage, there will always A FUTURE for yourself.

For your children that still need your love.

If you hate your spouse, YOU THINK OF YOUR CHILDREN.

How could they live like a normal human if they don't feel the love from their father or mother when they grow up?

If you love them LOVE WILL NOT KILL YOU but stand up and be a man, trying to do the best for your children, for your family...

I hope he learn a lesson too...

And hope everything's gonna be fine...

Not only on his side, but also on his wife's side.

Hope they will be back together again, I HOPE.

So, will story mory about my life again soon...

I just had to recover back from the very scary sight I saw that nite...

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My weekend with old and new friends :)

Weekend lepas, saya pergi ke satu jemputan gathering kat Bandung, to be precise dekat Ciwidey area. I was so excited since dah lama xjumpe kawan2. And moreover, one of the activity is that we're going to visit Kawah Putih. Kawah Putih nie salah satu tourist destination yang ada kat Bandung (sila baca kat SINI). From Bandung to Ciwidey, it takes like 1.5 - 2 hours drive. So, on Saturday morning, mom hantar saya jumpe kawan2 semua then I followed my friend's car from Bandung up to Ciwidey.

So happy sebab tengok2 ramai juga peserta gathering. Dulu masa tahun 2000 - 2005 saya yang selalu organize this gathering, rasa2 baru first time boleh jadi guest instead of organizer. Seronok sangat. Sampai sana pon suke iklim yang sejuk, such a good chance for me to experience a good ambience of highland forestry. Lama dah xpegi tempat2 camnie. Dahtue bole jumpe ngan kawan2 lama plus I got a chance to know lots of new friends there. I was in this one automotive club before, so kawan2 lama tue yang dah senior2 la (ceehhh...) then kawan2 yang baru jumpe nie kira club's new members.

Since aturacara untuk gathering tue start lepas Maghrib, so me and friends decided to jalan2 cari makan (baru 1.5 jam makan tengah hari tapi terus lapar balik sebab sejuk). Kat sana ada kolam tempat mandi air panas, tapi penuh...ramai orang datang weekend tue, more over it was on beginning of the month, ramai orang bercuti. We decided to  not swim there sebab pack sangat lagipon villa yang kitaorang sewa dah ada private pool kat dalam villa tue, besar la jugak, bole muat dalam 10 orang :)

Makin petang, makin sejuk... Saya kne beli glove ngan topi rajut nie, saje nak hangatkan badan. Saya kan allergic bende2 yang sejuk nie, tapi kat sana ok je tak flu pon, memang sejuk tapi I can breath very lightly, probably because of the mountain fresh air. Sejuk memang sejuk, tapi udara bersih lagi...

Lepas maghrib, mula la ramai yang lain datang. Kalau nak kira, kemungkinan ada total 25 kereta club's member datang dari cawangan Jakarta, Bandung, Bogor, dan Cirebon. Mungkin orang bole cecah 50 org! Gile ramai, x expect pon sume orang bole datang. Selalunye orang2 nie dapat jemputan pastue malas nak jalan jauh2.

So the organizer was very happy and that nite ada pertukaran ketua club untuk cawangan Bandung juga. Disebabkan villa yang kita sewa xbole menampung ramai sangat orang, dan villa2 kat sebelah villa tue penuh, so ramai gak kawan2 yang terus balik lepas majlis habis. Xkesah la juga, dah jumpa dan sambung tali silaturahim tue dah cukup dah. Maybe can see them in another chance in future...

The next day, saya yang selalu malas mandi (haaa kantoi) kalau sejuk2 nie tetiba nak rajin mandi! Sebab bole berendamkat air panas dalam tandas tue, mandi pon air hangat. Weeee best la, pagi2 dah mandi, dah jalan2 dekat area villa. Kalau lelaki xpayah tanya la, diorang xmandi tak kesah hihihi... So, kita pon bergambar sama2, saya je perempuan yang dah siap mandi, yang lain2 tue tgh deal ngan sesi mekap yang lama sgt :P

Dah nak balik baru la all the ladies join gak :)

Too bad kitaorang xsempat singgah Kawah Putih even it's only two kilometers away from our villa, sebab it was raining most of the time, mesti kabus banyak. 

Overall, was so happy. Some old members datang (my batch year 2000-2005) suke kan bercerita pasal bende2 kelakar zaman2 dulu. Sekarang semua dah busy keje, busy sambung belajar, busy urus anak, hehe... I really look forward for similar activity soon. 

 Really hope can bring Mr Red Ribbon too and get to know how my friends are. Insyaallah another one is coming soon on April, we'll see if I have a chance to go again :)

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