2 Major Problems on My Job at Turkey...

Friends, I really really need your help.

As stated here in THIS POST titled Terkejut! Got Invitation to Fly to Turkey!, me had received one invitation to fly for work to Turkey. I was still blur about it. Was hoping that all expenses will be bare by the company, so I didn't ask.

To be honest. Money is all that matter at the first place. Coz for me, I'm ready to go anywhere around the world it's just I don't have budget to do so hehe...

But, the employer still haven't touch the expenses part yet. He didn't mention anything about it. Which it has left me in an undecided moment. Whether to go or not. I didn't even know how to ask properly... There is no way for me to ask directly "who's going to pay all the expenses? me or you?".

While thinking about HOW TO MAKE EVERYTHING CLEAR, let's check what questions do the employer asked me:

At the end of the email, they mentioned, I might be doing the training for 2-3 months...

Sounds crazy, I know. I thought it is only 7 days max, so as I said before, I planned to take my father with me. But now? There is no way for my dad staying there this long!

They mentioned that last year they brought in foreigner also for the project, and those workers only got a week visa. So just to be safe, they want me to apply a 6 months visa, not a single entry visa. Yes, I will certainly do this as soon as possible. While thinking of going or not (depends on who pay the expenses, for sure)

So those things are very important to me. 2-3 months? One of my NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS is to finish my study asap, so if I have to sacrifice my 2-3 months there, is it a worth thing to do? I know this job will bring more carreer in my future. But I'm so afraid this will distract my wedding and study plan. Coz I have to bare in mind. I WON'T BE ALLOWED TO CONTINUE STUDY AFTER I GOT MARRIED. That's the rules from Malaysian government. So, the only thing I can do is go quickly finish my study first before my wedding plan on September 2011.

So, I got 2 problems here:

- Should I go Turkey?

(good for my future career)

- Should I just stay and finish my study asap.

(good for my education and wedding purposes)

HOW?

Can anyone suggest me how to ask in good manner? (regarding the travel expenses)

Is it OK for me to travel there alone for 2-3 months?

I feel like I'm sooo nekat

(Mr Red Ribbon didn't allow me to go there alone, btw. And I don't think my dad can follow me for 2-3months... but I think he can come for the first 7 days, I guess)

I NEED ADVICE...

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